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55 Ways to Say How You Feel in Japanese (Happy, Angry, Embarrassed, Shocked and More)
Knowing the word for "happy" is easy. Knowing what a Japanese person would actually say when they win, lose, blush, or miss the last train is harder. This page covers the feelings and quick reactions you need in real conversations, from polite to very casual. The notes point out the traps: words that can sound rude, words with no neat English match, and words that don't mean what the dictionary suggests.
📝 Before you start
- Japanese often leaves out "I." Just saying ureshii! or tsukareta already means "I'm happy" or "I'm tired."
- Japanese avoids stating other people's feelings as fact. Instead of "she is sad," people say kanashiso (she looks sad) or kanashii tte (she says she's sad).
- Add desu to adjectives or use -mashita with verbs to sound polite: ureshii desu, tsukaremashita. With friends, drop it.
- Many reactions are said out loud to nobody in particular: tsukareta, samui, oshii. Muttering them to yourself is completely normal.
- Tone does a lot of work. Saiaku, hidoi, and ee can be playful or serious depending on how you say them, so match your face and voice to the meaning.
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嬉しいうれしい
ureshii
Happy, glad (about something that happened)
来てくれて、本当に嬉しい。
Kite kurete, honto ni ureshii.
“I'm really happy you came.”
💡 Happiness about a specific event: a gift, good news, someone showing up. For enjoying an activity, use tanoshii instead. Ureshii desu is also a warm, polite way to say thank you. Often written in hiragana.
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楽しいたのしい
tanoshii
Fun, enjoyable
日本の旅行、すごく楽しかった!
Nihon no ryoko, sugoku tanoshikatta!
“My trip to Japan was so much fun!”
💡 Describes an experience you enjoy: a party, a trip, a class. Ureshii is your reaction to good news; tanoshii is the fun of doing something. At the end of an evening, tanoshikatta (that was fun) is the natural thing to say.
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悲しいかなしい
kanashii
Sad
好きだった店がなくなって、悲しい。
Suki datta mise ga nakunatte, kanashii.
“I'm sad that my favorite shop closed.”
💡 Real sadness from loss or disappointment. For a lighter "that's a shame," zannen fits better, and for loneliness, sabishii.
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幸せしあわせ
shiawase
Happy (a deep, warm happiness); bliss
おいしいものを食べているときが一番幸せ。
Oishii mono o tabete iru toki ga ichiban shiawase.
“I'm happiest when I'm eating something delicious.”
💡 A fuller, warmer happiness than ureshii. It's not only for big life events: people sigh shiawase after a great bite of dessert or sinking into a hot bath.
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好きすき
suki
Like; love
日本の食べ物が好きです。
Nihon no tabemono ga suki desu.
“I like Japanese food.”
💡 Covers both "like" and "love." Said directly to a person, suki desu is a confession of romantic feelings, so be careful. The opposite, kirai, is strong; people often soften it to amari suki ja nai (not really my thing).
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恋しいこいしい
koishii
I miss (someone, a place, a food)
日本に来て一か月、家族の料理が恋しい。
Nihon ni kite ikkagetsu, kazoku no ryori ga koishii.
“It's been a month since I came to Japan, and I miss my family's cooking.”
💡 Longing for something you can't have right now: home, a person, a food, a season. Very handy for travelers. Japanese has no everyday verb that works exactly like "I miss you"; people often say aitai (I want to see you) or sabishii instead.
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Casual
嫌だいやだ
iya da
I don't want to / No way / I hate that
雨の日に出かけるのは嫌だな。
Ame no hi ni dekakeru no wa iya da na.
“I really don't feel like going out on a rainy day.”
💡 A direct refusal or dislike. Iya! on its own is a strong "No!" and small children say it constantly. With adults and at work it can sound blunt or childish, so a trailing chotto... is the usual polite no.
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苦手にがて
nigate
Not good with; don't really like
辛いものはちょっと苦手です。
Karai mono wa chotto nigate desu.
“I'm not great with spicy food.”
💡 The soft, polite way to say you dislike something or aren't good at it. Perfect for food: nigate desu sounds much gentler than kirai desu. It's also used for people you find hard to deal with.
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Very casual
ムカつくむかつく
mukatsuku
So annoying; I'm ticked off
あいつの言い方、本当にムカつく。
Aitsu no iikata, honto ni mukatsuku.
“The way that guy talks really ticks me off.”
💡 Very common among young people for being irritated or offended. Too rough for work or for anyone above you. Saying mukatsuku to someone's face is picking a fight.
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怒ってるおこってる
okotteru
(Someone) is angry, mad
まだ怒ってる? ― もう怒ってないよ。
Mada okotteru? -- Mo okottenai yo.
“Are you still mad? -- No, I'm not mad anymore.”
💡 Okoru is "to get angry," and okotte iru is "to be angry." Okoranaide means "don't be mad." Okoru also means to scold, so sensei ni okorareta means "I got told off by the teacher."
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恥ずかしいはずかしい
hazukashii
Embarrassed; shy; embarrassing
人の前で歌うのは恥ずかしい。
Hito no mae de utau no wa hazukashii.
“Singing in front of people is embarrassing.”
📖 Culture guide: haji ›💡 Covers embarrassed, shy, and ashamed, so context matters. About your own blunder it's light; said about someone else's behavior, it can mean "that's shameful," which is strong.
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照れるてれる
tereru
To feel bashful, blush (from praise or attention)
そんなにほめられると照れるなあ。
Sonna ni homerareru to tereru na.
“You're making me blush with all that praise.”
💡 The happy kind of embarrassment when you're complimented or teased about a crush. Tereru na, said with a smile, is a charming way to accept praise without sounding proud.
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悔しいくやしい
kuyashii
Frustrated, stung (after losing or failing)
あと一点で負けて、本当に悔しい。
Ato itten de makete, honto ni kuyashii.
“We lost by just one point. It's so frustrating.”
💡 One of the hardest feelings to translate: the burning frustration of losing, especially when you tried hard or nearly made it. It often turns into motivation. Athletes say it after close defeats.
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感動したかんどうした
kando shita
I was moved, deeply touched
あの映画、本当に感動した。
Ano eiga, honto ni kando shita.
“That movie really moved me.”
💡 Used far more often than "moved" in English: for films, scenery, performances, even a great meal. It shows sincere, strong appreciation.
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びっくりした
bikkuri shita
That surprised me! / You scared me!
急に後ろから声をかけないで。びっくりした!
Kyu ni ushiro kara koe o kakenaide. Bikkuri shita!
“Don't call out from behind me like that. You scared me!”
💡 For being surprised and for being startled. Odoroita means the same thing but sounds a little more formal or written.
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ほっとした
hotto shita
Relieved; phew
財布が見つかって、ほっとした。
Saifu ga mitsukatte, hotto shita.
“I found my wallet. What a relief.”
💡 The feeling of tension draining away after a worry is over. Anshin shita is a close cousin, slightly more formal.
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緊張するきんちょうする
kincho suru
To be nervous
面接の前は、すごく緊張する。
Mensetsu no mae wa, sugoku kincho suru.
“I get really nervous before interviews.”
💡 Nerves before a test, a speech, or meeting someone important. Different from shinpai, which is worry about how something will turn out. Kincho shinaide means "relax, don't be nervous."
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疲れたつかれた
tsukareta
I'm tired
今日はたくさん歩いて、疲れた。
Kyo wa takusan aruite, tsukareta.
“I walked a lot today, so I'm tired.”
💡 Past tense in form, but it means "I'm tired now." The polite form is tsukaremashita. Many people say it to themselves the moment they sit down.
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眠いねむい
nemui
Sleepy
時差ぼけで、昼なのに眠い。
Jisaboke de, hiru na no ni nemui.
“It's the middle of the day, but I'm sleepy from jet lag.”
💡 Sleepy, not tired. Nemutai is a common spoken variant. Jisaboke (jet lag) is a handy word for travelers.
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Casual
お腹すいたおなかすいた
onaka suita
I'm hungry
お腹すいた!何か食べに行こう。
Onaka suita! Nanika tabe ni iko.
“I'm hungry! Let's go get something to eat.”
💡 Literally "my stomach has emptied." Past form, present meaning. The polite version is onaka ga sukimashita. Hara hetta is a rougher version.
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泣きそうなきそう
nakiso
I'm about to cry
みんなの手紙を読んで、泣きそうになった。
Minna no tegami o yonde, nakiso ni natta.
“Reading everyone's letters, I almost cried.”
💡 For being close to tears from sadness, joy, or being touched. Said half-jokingly, it also means "this is so bad I could cry," like losing a game you almost won.
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最高さいこう
saiko
The best! Awesome!
温泉のあとのビール、最高!
Onsen no ato no biru, saiko!
“A beer after a hot spring bath is the best!”
💡 Literally "the highest." A very common exclamation for anything great: food, weather, a concert, a day off. Saiko desu works in polite speech too.
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Casual
最悪さいあく
saiaku
The worst! Ugh.
傘を忘れた。最悪。
Kasa o wasureta. Saiaku.
“I forgot my umbrella. Ugh, the worst.”
💡 Often an exaggeration for small disasters. Using it about someone's cooking, work, or hometown is harsh, so keep it for your own bad luck.
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助かったたすかった
tasukatta
That really helped / You saved me
道を教えてくれて、助かりました。
Michi o oshiete kurete, tasukarimashita.
“Thanks for the directions. You really helped me out.”
💡 A thank-you that stresses how much the help mattered. Tasukarimashita is the polite form. When someone offers to help, tasukaru (that would be a big help) is a natural, grateful reply.
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残念ざんねん
zannen
That's too bad; what a shame
雨で花火が中止だって。残念。
Ame de hanabi ga chushi datte. Zannen.
“They canceled the fireworks because of rain. What a shame.”
💡 Mild disappointment, usually about something no one could control. Zannen desu ne is a polite way to sympathize. It's a lighter word than kanashii.
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うらやましい
urayamashii
I'm jealous (in a friendly way); lucky you
毎日海が見えるなんて、うらやましい!
Mainichi umi ga mieru nante, urayamashii!
“You can see the ocean every day? I'm so jealous!”
💡 Usually light and friendly, closer to "lucky you!" than real envy. The casual short version is ii na. Bitter, serious jealousy is a different word, shitto.
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心配しんぱい
shinpai
Worried
台風で飛行機が飛ぶか心配だ。
Taifu de hikoki ga tobu ka shinpai da.
“With the typhoon, I'm worried whether my flight will go.”
💡 Worry about a specific thing or person. Shinpai shinaide means "don't worry." Go-shinpai o okake shimashita is a polite apology for having made someone worry.
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不安ふあん
fuan
Anxious, uneasy
一人で旅行するのは、少し不安です。
Hitori de ryoko suru no wa, sukoshi fuan desu.
“I'm a little uneasy about traveling alone.”
💡 A vaguer, more general unease than shinpai, often about the future or the unknown. Fuan desu is an honest, polite way to say you're not confident about something.
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怖いこわい
kowai
Scary; I'm scared
夜の山道は怖い。
Yoru no yamamichi wa kowai.
“Mountain roads at night are scary.”
💡 Means both "scary" and "I'm scared." It's also used for strict or intimidating people, like a kowai teacher or boss.
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気になるきになる
ki ni naru
Curious about; bothered by; interested in (someone)
あの新しいカフェ、ちょっと気になる。
Ano atarashii kafe, chotto ki ni naru.
“I'm kind of curious about that new cafe.”
💡 Something keeps pulling your attention: a new shop, a strange noise, or a person you might like (ki ni naru hito). Ki ni shinaide means "don't worry about it."
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信じられないしんじられない
shinjirarenai
I can't believe it
合格したなんて、まだ信じられない。
Gokaku shita nante, mada shinjirarenai.
“I still can't believe I passed.”
💡 For amazing news and for outrageous behavior alike. It's a full sentence on its own. Shinjirarenai! said with an angry face is a strong criticism.
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切ないせつない
setsunai
Bittersweet, aching (sad and tender at once)
この歌を聞くと、切なくなる。
Kono uta o kiku to, setsunaku naru.
“This song always makes my heart ache.”
💡 A painful, tender sadness, often about love, memories, or things that can't last. Common in song lyrics and movie reviews. English needs a phrase for it, like "heartachingly sad" or "bittersweet."
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気持ちいいきもちいい
kimochi ii
Feels good, refreshing
朝の散歩は気持ちいい。
Asa no sanpo wa kimochi ii.
“A morning walk feels so good.”
💡 Physical comfort: a cool breeze, a hot bath, a good stretch, clean sheets. Saying kimochi ii as you sink into an onsen is a classic. It's about sensation, not about being in a good mood.
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気持ち悪いきもちわるい
kimochi warui
I feel sick; gross, creepy
バスに酔って、気持ち悪い。
Basu ni yotte, kimochi warui.
“I got motion sick on the bus and I feel sick.”
💡 Two very different uses: feeling nauseous (important to know on a bus or at a pharmacy) and finding something gross or creepy. The slang kimoi comes from it. Said about a person, it's a harsh insult.
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痛いいたい
itai
Ouch! / It hurts
痛い!足をぶつけた。
Itai! Ashi o butsuketa.
“Ouch! I banged my foot.”
💡 Itai! is the Japanese "ouch." To say where it hurts, put the body part first: atama ga itai (I have a headache), onaka ga itai (my stomach hurts).
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Casual
暇ひま
hima
Free, not busy; bored
今週末、暇?
Konshumatsu, hima?
“Are you free this weekend?”
💡 Means both "free" and "bored with nothing to do." Hima? is a casual way to invite a friend. With people above you, ask o-jikan arimasu ka instead, since hima can suggest they have nothing important to do.
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忙しいいそがしい
isogashii
Busy
最近、仕事が忙しい。
Saikin, shigoto ga isogashii.
“Work's been busy lately.”
💡 Often used as a soft way to decline an invitation. O-isogashii tokoro sumimasen (sorry to bother you when you're busy) is a common polite opener at work.
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つまらない
tsumaranai
Boring, dull
この番組、つまらないね。
Kono bangumi, tsumaranai ne.
“This show is boring, isn't it?”
💡 Tsumannai in casual speech. Tsumaranai mono desu ga (it's only a small thing) is a traditional humble line when giving a gift, though some people now feel it's old-fashioned and use other phrases.
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面白いおもしろい
omoshiroi
Funny; interesting
この本、すごく面白いよ。
Kono hon, sugoku omoshiroi yo.
“This book is really interesting.”
💡 Covers both "funny" and "interesting," which confuses learners at first; context decides. In Kansai you'll hear the dialect form omoroi.
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困ったこまった
komatta
I'm stuck / What do I do now?
終電がなくなって、困ったな。
Shuden ga nakunatte, komatta na.
“I missed the last train. What do I do now?”
💡 For being stuck or at a loss. Komatte imasu (I'm having trouble) is a good way to ask station staff or a stranger for help. Staff may offer help with nanika o-komari desu ka?
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Casual
ショック
shokku
Shocked, crushed
スマホを落として、画面が割れた。ショック!
Sumaho o otoshite, gamen ga wareta. Shokku!
“I dropped my phone and the screen cracked. I'm crushed!”
💡 Used much more lightly than "shock" in English, for anything from bad news to a broken phone or a sold-out item. Shokku da or shokku desu.
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落ち込むおちこむ
ochikomu
To feel down, be in low spirits
テストの結果が悪くて、落ち込んでいる。
Tesuto no kekka ga warukute, ochikonde iru.
“I'm feeling down because my test results were bad.”
💡 A low mood after a setback. It's everyday language, not a medical term. Ochikomanaide is a kind way to say "don't let it get you down."
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Neutral
満足まんぞく
manzoku
Satisfied, content
量も味も大満足です。
Ryo mo aji mo daimanzoku desu.
“The portions and the taste were both totally satisfying.”
💡 Being satisfied with food, a result, or a trip. Daimanzoku (hugely satisfied) is common in reviews and TV food segments.
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迷うまよう
mayou
Can't decide, torn; to get lost
どっちのケーキにするか迷うなあ。
Dotchi no keki ni suru ka mayou na.
“I can't decide which cake to get.”
💡 Being torn between choices, from menu items to life decisions. The same verb means getting lost: michi ni mayotta (I got lost). Mayottara kore (if you can't decide, get this) is a common line on menus and shop signs.
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Casual
えー!
ee!
What?! / No way / Aww
えー、もう終わっちゃったの?
Ee, mo owacchatta no?
“What? It's already over?”
💡 A drawn-out e that shows surprise, disappointment, or mild protest. Tone does everything: rising for surprise, long and falling for disappointment. Overusing it in formal situations can sound childish.
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Casual
うわあ
uwa
Whoa! Wow! Yikes!
うわあ、きれいな景色!
Uwa, kirei na keshiki!
“Whoa, what a beautiful view!”
💡 A raw, instant reaction: a stunning view, a huge bill, a bug on the wall. Uwa can be delight or disgust, so the face you make matters.
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Casual
あーあ
aa
Oh well / Oh no (a sigh)
あーあ、アイスが落ちちゃった。
Aa, aisu ga ochichatta.
“Oh no, my ice cream fell.”
💡 A sigh of disappointment or resignation at a small accident, said with a falling tone. Parents also say it when a child spills or breaks something.
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落ち着くおちつく
ochitsuku
To feel calm, at ease; to calm down
この部屋、なんだか落ち着く。
Kono heya, nandaka ochitsuku.
“There's something really calming about this room.”
💡 Describes a place or thing that makes you feel relaxed and at home, like an old cafe or a tatami room. Ochitsuite means "calm down," said to someone who is upset or in a panic.
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ひどい
hidoi
That's terrible / That's so mean
約束を忘れるなんて、ひどい!
Yakusoku o wasureru nante, hidoi!
“You forgot our plans? That's so mean!”
💡 For cruel or unfair treatment, and also for bad conditions (hidoi ame, terrible rain). Said half-jokingly between friends, it's like "how could you!"
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かわいそう
kawaiso
Poor thing; I feel sorry for them
雨の中でずっと待たされて、かわいそう。
Ame no naka de zutto matasarete, kawaiso.
“Poor thing, having to wait in the rain all that time.”
💡 Pity and sympathy. It has nothing to do with kawaii (cute), despite the sound. Saying it straight to someone can come across as looking down on them, so it's used more about situations and animals.
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後悔してるこうかいしてる
kokai shiteru
I regret it
もっと写真を撮ればよかったと後悔してる。
Motto shashin o toreba yokatta to kokai shiteru.
“I regret not taking more photos.”
💡 Regret about something you did or didn't do. A lighter, everyday way to say it is ... sureba yokatta (I should have ...). Kokai shinai yo ni (so you won't regret it) is a common push to go for something.
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Casual
ずるい
zurui
Unfair! / Sneaky / No fair!
一人だけ先に食べるなんて、ずるい!
Hitori dake saki ni taberu nante, zurui!
“You started eating without us? No fair!”
💡 Ranges from a serious "sneaky, dishonest" to a playful "no fair!" between friends. It's also a jokey compliment for something so good it feels unfair, like a friend who is good at everything.
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惜しいおしい
oshii
So close! / Almost!
惜しい!あと少しだったのに。
Oshii! Ato sukoshi datta no ni.
“So close! You almost had it.”
💡 For a near miss: a quiz answer that's nearly right, a shot that just misses. No single English word fits. It can also mean it's a pity to lose something good.
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Casual
飽きたあきた
akita
I'm sick of it, bored of it
毎日同じお昼ごはんで、もう飽きた。
Mainichi onaji ohirugohan de, mo akita.
“I've had the same lunch every day. I'm sick of it.”
💡 For something you've had or done too many times. Different from tsumaranai (boring by nature): akita means it was fine at first, but you've had enough. Telling a cook akita about their food would hurt.
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ありがたい
arigatai
I'm grateful; that's really kind
手伝ってもらえると、本当にありがたいです。
Tetsudatte moraeru to, honto ni arigatai desu.
“If you could help me, I'd really appreciate it.”
💡 A feeling of gratitude, related to arigato. Arigatai desu is a warm, polite way to accept an offer. Arigata meiwaku means a favor you didn't want, kindness that is actually a burden.
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